She Promised To Move Out After The Breakup - But MONTHS Later, He's Still Paying Her Way! 😠

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Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a doozy of a story for you today. 😱 Imagine being stuck living with your ex for months after a breakup. 💔 Talk about awkward! 😬 Well, that's exactly the situation our poor protagonist finds himself in. 🙍‍♂️ His ex-fiancé called it quits six months ago, but she's been dragging her feet on finding a new place. 🐌 To make matters worse, she's not even paying her share of the rent! 💸 Can you believe the audacity? 😤 Let's dive into this juicy tale and see if our guy is really the a-hole for giving his ex the boot. 🥾

💔 The Breakup Bombshell 💣

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🏠 The Roommate Agreement 📝

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💸 Footing the Bills Solo 💰

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😡 Ex Calls Me an A-hole 🤬

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👧 The Daughter Detail 🎀

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💸 The $8K Check Fiasco 💸

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🍻 Partying Over Paying Rent 🎉

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👨‍👧 The 50/50 Custody Conundrum 👩‍👧

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💔 Heartless for Wanting to Heal? 💔

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🍼 The Live-In Babysitter Blues 👶

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🏠 The Apartment Hunt Begins 🔍

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🙏 Overwhelmed with Gratitude 🙌

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🚨 The Ex-Fiancé Freeloader Fiasco 🚨

Well, well, well... what a mess we have here! 😱 Our poor protagonist is stuck in a nightmare situation with his ex-fiancé-turned-roommate. 🙍‍♀️ Despite their agreement to split expenses, this freeloader has been living rent-free for months while partying it up with her friends! 🍻 To add insult to injury, she even has the nerve to call him an a-hole for wanting her out! 😤 Can you believe it? 🤯 But wait, there's more! They have a 5-year-old daughter together, and the ex is using him as a live-in babysitter while she drinks the weekends away. 🍼🥂 Talk about taking advantage! 😠 Let's see what the internet has to say about this wild situation... 🌐

Time to cut her off. NTA for wanting her out 👍

basspony | basspony

Ex agreed to pay bills but still taking advantage. NTA 👍

FireEbonyashes | FireEbonyashes

Ex-girlfriend not paying rent, NTA for expecting her to contribute 💰

ozziejean | ozziejean

Curious about her side, commenter sympathizes with OP's situation.

PrimaveraEterna | PrimaveraEterna

Stand your ground and kick her out! 😠

chloo_chloo | chloo_chloo

NTA. Breakup means moving on, not living rent-free. 👍

beez8383 | beez8383

Legally evict her and take her to court for unpaid rent 💰

cupcakeshape | cupcakeshape

Freeloading ex won't pay rent for 3 months? NTA, kick her out! 😠

Mellbxo | Mellbxo

Ex-girlfriend needs to support herself, lawyer up for custody 👨‍⚖️

bangcamaroxx | bangcamaroxx

NTA for kicking out ex, but consider daughter's wellbeing 👨🏼‍💻 and consult a lawyer 💻

GrumpyKitten514 | GrumpyKitten514

Ex-girlfriend taking advantage of kindness. NTA for standing up.

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Ex's promise to move out is over and you're NTA 🚪

YouMilkIsMine | YouMilkIsMine

Fatherhood is not babysitting. NTA for wanting her out. 😊

rockishOBOI | rockishOBOI

Parenting isn't babysitting! NTA for setting move-out date. 😊

Justbrowsing616 | Justbrowsing616

NTA for not wanting to support freeloading, selfish ex-partner 🚫💰

LuigiFF | LuigiFF

Ex broke up, still paying? NTA. You gave notice already 👍

c00750ny3h | c00750ny3h

She broke the agreement, plain and simple. 👍

Luna_l0vegood | Luna_l0vegood

Get a 50/50 agreement in writing to avoid child support.

angelmr2 | angelmr2

Is free living considered child support? Share your thoughts 🤔

docgok | docgok

Sensible suggestion to end a free ride and protect daughter 👍

DubiousPeoplePleaser | DubiousPeoplePleaser

Don't fund her lifestyle, NTA. It's time to move on.

Palindrome_Oakley | Palindrome_Oakley

Co-parenting struggles post-breakup. Navigating difficult emotions. 😢

ehsantillana | ehsantillana

Ex-fiancée still living with ex-boyfriend, not his responsibility anymore. 😠

franclemontb | franclemontb

Be prepared for full custody if kicking wife out. NTA.

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Concern for daughter's well-being amidst breakup and financial burden.

mayhembunny | mayhembunny

Ex-girlfriend sponging off ex-boyfriend, NTA seeks full custody 👍

Dart150 | Dart150

Get it in writing and evict her. NTA for protecting daughter 👏

Froggetpwagain | Froggetpwagain

Taking care of the kid doesn't make him TA 👍

bro-like-why | bro-like-why

NTA suggests seeking custody due to unstable partying mother 🤔

the_last_basselope | the_last_basselope

Parenting responsibility and moving out advice for NTA.

SkipToTheBestPart | SkipToTheBestPart

Suggests seeking full custody due to unstable mother situation 👍

piehore | piehore

Co-parenting concerns addressed with empathy and practical advice. 👍

sassyandsweer789 | sassyandsweer789

Get a lawyer to evict her and discuss custody options 😎

kaiti714 | kaiti714

Tenant not paying rent? NTA, but dealing with her sucks 😩

09Klr650 | 09Klr650

Refusing to renew lease might be the best solution 🙂

resilientspirit | resilientspirit

NTA. Giving her a move out date is perfectly fair. 👍

femmemalin | femmemalin

Freeloading ex won't move out, but you're NTA for asking. 🙌

kayaker58 | kayaker58

Struggling to evict ex and recover rent? Consider legal action 😎

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NTA, she made her choices and needs to be a grown-up 💪

smokey_flutterby | smokey_flutterby

Don't fund her lifestyle, you deserve to heal and move on. 🙏

rustyshackleford1301 | rustyshackleford1301

NTA commenter advises getting legal advice and evidence ASAP. 👏

tech_GG | tech_GG

NTA, kick her a** out and move on! 💪

gilbertwebdude | gilbertwebdude

Co-parenting with ex who won't move out, be civil & practical 👍

shaylaa30 | shaylaa30

You're NTA for wanting her to move out ASAP 😠

Unidentifiedten | Unidentifiedten

Exes living together is a recipe for disaster 🥴 NTA deserves better

robbietreehorn | robbietreehorn

Get a lawyer to make sure custody agreement is iron clad 💪

jdude666 | jdude666

NTA. Custody battle may be necessary for daughter's stability. 📺

Lovely1Valentine | Lovely1Valentine

Suggesting a way out of the roommate predicament. 👍

merchillio | merchillio

NTA suggests OP should consider moving out and leaving ex-girlfriend.

killedwithasandwich | killedwithasandwich

👏🏼 NTA stands his ground against moocher ex-girlfriend.

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Get a lawyer, take some me-time, and stay ahead of her.

YourTornAlive | YourTornAlive

Not the a**hole for wanting her to move out, but should rephrase.

wildviolentflower | wildviolentflower

Protect your daughter and yourself, keep records and educate her! 👍

ChillWisdom | ChillWisdom

Legal action may be necessary to evict ex-partner. Good luck!

Half-ShredofSense | Half-ShredofSense

No free ride for the ex! NTA for kicking out.

Advanced_Lobster | Advanced_Lobster

NTA's best move is to leave, transfer expenses to her name and protect his daughter. 👍

Volkar | Volkar

NTA but concerns about custody arrangement and child's environment 🤔

WittyAlpaca | WittyAlpaca

Time to cut her off and move on. NTA 👍

jszalaj | jszalaj

OP is NTA for wanting to evict his freeloading ex 🙅‍♂️

Joepost19 | Joepost19

Serve that eviction notice and take her to court! 💯

Froot-Batz | Froot-Batz

Moving out might be the best option for you! 🙌

privacyishard | privacyishard

Take legal action, don't let her manipulate you anymore. 💼⚖️

perpIndignant | perpIndignant

Kick her to the curb! 💪🏼 You're being used. #NTA

PabloAtTheBar | PabloAtTheBar

Legally delinquent subtenant not paying rent. Evict and notify landlord. 😤

ladysuccubus | ladysuccubus

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