🚨 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy tale of love, money, and some serious shopping sprees. 🛍️💸 Meet our leading lady, a 36-year-old boss babe who's been killing it at work and dropping dress sizes like it's hot. 🔥 But her 43-year-old boyfriend? Not so much. He's been giving her major side-eye for splurging on some well-deserved retail therapy. 😒 Is she the a-hole for treating herself, or is her man just jealous of her fab new wardrobe? 👠 Let's dive in and find out! 🏊♀️
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🎭 Drama Alert: Fashionista GF vs. Frugal BF! 😱
Whew, talk about a fashion face-off! 😅 Our girl's been working her booty off, paying the bills, and making sure everyone's taken care of. 👑 But her boyfriend? He's not exactly thrilled about her shopping habits. 🙄 She's lost a ton of weight and needs a new wardrobe, accessories included. 💃 Meanwhile, he's turning down jobs left and right because they're 'boring.' 😴 Now he's making her feel guilty for treating herself, even though she's got all the important stuff covered. 💅 The internet's got some thoughts on this one, and they're not holding back! 🍿 Grab your popcorn, because this is about to get interesting. 👀
Partner refuses full-time job, leeches off 75% paying partner. NTA.
jimrow83 | jimrow83
NTA for spending your own money, build savings and upgrade bf 👏
opinionreservoir | opinionreservoir
NTA shuts down freeloading guy's opinion on finances 👏
Syveril | Syveril
Update on financial counseling and personal evaluation, plus more shoes 😜
DrKorsakov | DrKorsakov
User questions if boyfriend's plan is sustainable without real job 💼
pfashby | pfashby
Don't let him make you feel bad. You go girl! 👏
MadWitchLibrarian | MadWitchLibrarian
Partner upset over shopping when he barely covers his bills 🤔
rmric0 | rmric0
Dump him 👋. He's not adding to your life 👏
[deleted] | [deleted]
Boyfriend wants her to spend all her money. NTA. 🙌🏻
AttentionRoyal2276 | AttentionRoyal2276
NTA who pays most of the bills, needs a celebratory night out 🎉
Embarrassed_Board_15 | Embarrassed_Board_15
NTA for spending YOUR money. He needs a real job 💯
JenicBabe | JenicBabe
Buy yourself some shoes? How dare you! NTA obviously 😂
descentbecomesafall | descentbecomesafall
Financial independence and weight loss bothering him? You're NTA 👏
memorywishes | memorywishes
NTA for now, but YTA for keeping a lazy bum 🤷♀️
AvatarMars | AvatarMars
NTA and financial transparency is crucial for a shared life 💰
Ashamed-Ad-263 | Ashamed-Ad-263
Fair split or not? Commenter questions partner's contributions. 🤔
marblefree | marblefree
Partner upset about shopping but NTA for choosing not to work. 😠👠
serume | serume
Harsh truth: dating someone who can't pay 1/4 of rent 🤷♀️
[deleted] | [deleted]
Is he feeling insecure because she's out of his league? 🤔
belladonna_echo | belladonna_echo
Contributing 100% but not spending frivolously. Set boundaries! NTA.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Impressed commenter wonders how a busy doctor shops so much 🤔
OromirsHairlessGroin | OromirsHairlessGroin
Don't let him take advantage of you! 👏 Be cautious 👁
VeryStickyPastry | VeryStickyPastry
NTA but does he contribute in other ways? 🤔
karskipellis | karskipellis
Gender bias in financial abuse discourse called out 🔥
Late_Engineering9973 | Late_Engineering9973
NTA, he sounds like a controlling leech 😠
gotacrazyfam | gotacrazyfam
Is it a partnership or a one-sided deal? 🤔
columbidae28 | columbidae28
NTA, commenter suggests losing weight by dumping lazy partner 💪🏽
[deleted] | [deleted]
Celebrate your weight loss and spending habits, you're NTA 🎉
PJfanRI | PJfanRI
Reflect on why you need validation for an obvious NTA.
Old-Advice-5685 | Old-Advice-5685
Partner contributes nothing, complains about not getting fun money. 🙄
ScreamingSicada | ScreamingSicada
Savage comment, zero chill. 😂
jmurphy42 | jmurphy42
Money, freedom, and concern for OP's health. NTA wins! 👏🏻
randauum | randauum
Trying to find teamwork to justify his sense of entitlement.
ChakraMama318 | ChakraMama318
Curious about their love story, suspicious of his motives 🤔
smurfgrl417 | smurfgrl417
Partner lacks financial responsibility, consider legal protections. NTA 👍
CommitteeGullible876 | CommitteeGullible876
Equal gift-giving expectations in a NTA situation 👍
one_night_on_mars | one_night_on_mars
Treat yourself! You're not the a**hole here. 😎
NatashaAndBruce | NatashaAndBruce
Financial independence deserves self-care 👌 #NTA
Penelope_Luc9 | Penelope_Luc9
NTA, your money your rules. Does he help with housework? 🤔☀️🐦
Upstairs-Challenge92 | Upstairs-Challenge92
Gender roles and financial control in relationships discussed. 💰🤔
FamiliarSolid3315 | FamiliarSolid3315
Slaying the financial game 💰🙌
lostalldoubt86 | lostalldoubt86
Lazy partner causing financial strain, not contributing enough 🤔
Suckerforcats | Suckerforcats
Savage response shuts down deadbeat partner, NTA wins 👏
PaleHorseRiderX | PaleHorseRiderX
Money talk causing tension in relationship. 💰💔
Hermiona1 | Hermiona1
Dump the leech and find someone who appreciates your hard work 💪
Slow-Long2143 | Slow-Long2143
BF upset he can't leech more off partner, NTA, dump him 💸
Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet
"Get a full time job!" - Savage response to lazy partner 👊
BatDance3121 | BatDance3121
Questioning the husband's contribution to their finances 🤔
Real-Concert-8304 | Real-Concert-8304
NTA for spending her own money. Requests weight loss tips.
FauveSxMcW | FauveSxMcW
Unfair financial burden causing relationship dissatisfaction 😔
Urbanyeti0 | Urbanyeti0
Encouraging comment about leaving a burdensome partner. 👏
Comprehensive-Gur469 | Comprehensive-Gur469
Don't let anyone shame you for earning and spending your money 💰👏
Brutalwonderland | Brutalwonderland
Dump him 💔 Your money, your rules. NTA.
mrslII | mrslII
Dump the parasite 🚫 You deserve better 💪
Merlin_Smurf20 | Merlin_Smurf20
Empowering response to partner trying to control finances 💪
MindfulTornado | MindfulTornado
Congrats on weight loss! Deadbeat partner complains about clothing choices 😒
EdwinKNill | EdwinKNill
Boyfriend's insecurity over girlfriend's weight loss and shopping habits
geeksheet | geeksheet
NTA comment slams entitled man and sparks no replies.
embopbopbopdoowop | embopbopbopdoowop
Supportive comment encourages OP to leave financially irresponsible partner. 👏
thiswomanneedsafish | thiswomanneedsafish
Frustrated commenter calls out unequal relationship dynamics. 💰
FunStorm6487 | FunStorm6487
Partner contributes nothing but good sex, why keep him? 😏
BarbicideJar | BarbicideJar
Work may be boring, but it pays the bills 💰💄
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NTA and financially supporting a lazy partner? Time to reconsider. 💯
TheGallopingGhost77 | TheGallopingGhost77
The Offspring would agree, NTA for prioritizing financial independence.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Fair judgement but childcare responsibility needs discussion 👉👨👦👦
Significant_Knee_163 | Significant_Knee_163
Empathetic comment supporting weight loss and suggesting communication with partner 🙏
Fun-Attorney4071 | Fun-Attorney4071
Curious about her job and work-life balance 🤔
mindlessmarauder | mindlessmarauder
One-sided financial responsibility in a relationship 🤔
Individual_Baby_2418 | Individual_Baby_2418
