I Can't STAND My Husband's Touch Anymore 🤢😫

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🍼 Attention all new mamas out there! 🙋‍♀️ Are you struggling with a hubby who just can't keep his hands to himself after you've given birth? 🤦‍♀️ Well, buckle up because we've got a story that'll make you say "I feel you, girl!" 😩 This mama is at her wit's end with a husband who won't take no for an answer, even when she's exhausted from caring for their newborn! 😴 Get ready for a wild ride filled with booty smacks, pregnancy nightmares, and a whole lot of frustration! 😤 Can you relate? Let's dive in! 👇

🍼 Newborn Baby Blues: No Sex Drive in Sight! 😩

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🤰 Mama's Misery: Giving in to Hubby's Demands 6 Times! 😤

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🍑 Booty Smacks & Bending Over: Hubby's Ill-Timed Advances! 🙅‍♀️

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🚿 Mama's Precious Shower Time Ruined! 😡

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🗣️ Mama Lays Down the Law: Back Off Until I'm Ready! 😠

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🤰 Pregnancy Nightmares Haunt Mama After Sex! 😱

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🍑 Hubby's at it Again: 'Bend That A** Over!' 🙄

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🙅‍♀️ Mama Shuts Him Down: 'I Have S--t to Do!' 💪

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🗣️ Mama Puts Her Foot Down: 'Stop Touching Me!' 😤

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📱 Hubby's Apology Text: 'I Just Miss You' 🥺

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🥱 Mama's Libido MIA Since Giving Birth 😴

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😔 Mama Gives in Because She Feels She Can't Say No 😢

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🤷‍♀️ Why Does Mama Have to Repeat Herself? 🙄

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👭 Girlfriend Says Mama's the A-hole! 😲

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🙅‍♀️ But Mama Really Doesn't Want to Be Touched! 😫

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🍼 Mama's Had Enough: Hubby Won't Stop Touching Her After Baby! 😤

Whew, what a rollercoaster! 🎢 This poor mama is at her breaking point with a husband who just can't seem to understand that she's not in the mood for sexy time after giving birth! 🙅‍♀️ Between the exhaustion, the constant demands from her newborn, and the fact that she only gets one measly shower a week 🚿, it's no wonder she's ready to snap! 😠 But despite her pleas for him to back off, hubby just keeps coming back for more, leaving her feeling violated and misunderstood. 😢 It's a tough situation, and one that many new mamas can probably relate to. 😔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this one! 👀

Emotional intimacy is key during early infancy, NTA. 👍

Marillenbaum | Marillenbaum

Loss of libido after childbirth - husband shouldn't blame wife 🙅

calacmack | calacmack

New mom struggling with intimacy, needs husband's non-sexual support. 🙏

carterleslie23 | carterleslie23

Setting boundaries is crucial in a relationship 👍

searching9898 | searching9898

Lack of respect and foreplay in marriage 🙄

blossomhoney | blossomhoney

New mom is touched out, husband needs to chill and wait 👍

Liet_Kinda2 | Liet_Kinda2

Husband needs to understand and appreciate, friend is an AH 🙄

Jazzberry81 | Jazzberry81

Husband needs to show empathy and understand postpartum struggles 💔

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Postpartum hormone changes can affect libido and that's normal 👍

enigmatic404 | enigmatic404

Concerned commenter sympathizes with OP's uncomfortable situation.

eleanorlikesvodka | eleanorlikesvodka

Equal effort in household chores is important, not just physical touch ✌️

aurora4000 | aurora4000

NTA. Giving birth is trauma. You need to re-learn everything.

NachYoCheeeeese | NachYoCheeeeese

Setting boundaries is key to a healthy relationship 💔

Impossible-Major4037 | Impossible-Major4037

Childbirth is a traumatic event, your focus is on baby, NTA 👏

numbersev | numbersev

Mother shares experience on post-pregnancy wellness and support. 🙌

Gorethebaby | Gorethebaby

Schedule intimacy with your husband and communicate boundaries. NTA 👏

jinboeke | jinboeke

High libido may indicate lack of support for new baby 🙅🏼

aigirlfriend | aigirlfriend

Don't be an orgasm vending machine 👍, stand up for yourself! NTA.

TheTransAgender | TheTransAgender

Your husband is disrespecting your boundaries and needs counseling support.

IncenseAndPepperwood | IncenseAndPepperwood

Husband disregards consent during sex and pouts when confronted 😡

Jax_for_now | Jax_for_now

No time to even shower? NTA for feeling overwhelmed 😔

Jaded-Kitty87 | Jaded-Kitty87

Hilarious birth control stories from moms about their husbands 😂

aliskiromanov | aliskiromanov

Setting boundaries is important and non-negotiable. Stand your ground 💪

lbmomo | lbmomo

NTA. Postpartum takes time. Lazy husband needs to step up. 👏

Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1

NTA! Tell him the internet thinks he's a selfish prick 😠

imothro | imothro

Respect her 'no', it's a transient stage. Talk it out 👍

eurotrash4eva | eurotrash4eva

Concerned comment calls out abusive behavior towards spouse. ❌

JustSam10 | JustSam10

Respectful NTA comment highlights importance of consent in marriage 👍

namurger_ | namurger_

Postpartum sex issues: stats show it's not uncommon. #NormalizeIt 🙌

Far_Possession5124 | Far_Possession5124

A dad shares his perspective on postpartum intimacy with wife.

PewPewPony321 | PewPewPony321

The commenter empathizes with the situation, recommends couples counseling.

shamanwest | shamanwest

Withdraw consent anytime. Reasonable to expect no touch. NTA 👍

302neurons | 302neurons

Mother struggles with post-baby intimacy, NTA for feeling so.

xalleyxcatx | xalleyxcatx

Husband needs to step up and have a real conversation. 🙌

onlytexts | onlytexts

Support for dads who step up in parenting 👏

Sabertoothjellybean | Sabertoothjellybean

Teamwork makes the dream work for a satisfying marriage ✌️

sirlanse69 | sirlanse69

User finds husband's sexual advances unappealing and disrespectful.

LeadmeNotFL | LeadmeNotFL

NTAH. Husband values her body over boundaries and needs 😡

WayiiTM | WayiiTM

Survival mode during baby's first year, NTA for feeling overwhelmed.

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Respect her space! A** grabbing without consent is unacceptable 😡

shadesofvanilla | shadesofvanilla

Husband's sexual advances post-birth equals rape, pushing away emotionally 😞

if_im_not_back_in_5 | if_im_not_back_in_5

Husband treats her like a f**k doll, needs serious talk 😳

Techlet9625 | Techlet9625

Husband lacks respect, empathy and it's affecting attraction 🤢

Ok_Effect_5287 | Ok_Effect_5287

Partner needs to step up, NTA deserves time to relax 👏

BakeMaterial7901 | BakeMaterial7901

NTA comment calls out toxic behavior and possible crimes 🔥

rean1mated | rean1mated

Partner's lack of understanding, NTA for not wanting sex.

wonderlash | wonderlash

Reluctant consent is not consent, coercive consent is not consent 🚫

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Husband lacks respect, friend's advice is bad. Don't force sex. 🚫

mutherofdoggos | mutherofdoggos

Husband treats wife like a sex doll, NTA for setting boundaries 👏

AwesomeNerd18 | AwesomeNerd18

Gendered division of chores causing lack of intimacy. Dads, step up! 💪👍

CoatDisastrous7047 | CoatDisastrous7047

Communicating through postpartum pain can strengthen intimacy 💍

DirectionFragrant829 | DirectionFragrant829

The comment section is toxic and ridiculous. NTA.

suhhhrena | suhhhrena

Support your woman during and after childbirth! #NTA 👏

LootGoon24 | LootGoon24

New dads, help out with chores and baby or hire help 💪

Ceeweedsoop | Ceeweedsoop

NTA, but communication is key. Your husband misses you 😭

Adept_Tension_7326 | Adept_Tension_7326

Explaining postpartum hormonal and healing perspective for low sex drive 👍

MugglesSuck | MugglesSuck

New mom deserves a break, overwhelmed and overstimulated 😢

Zadia_HD | Zadia_HD

Adjusting to motherhood is tough, NTA. Find non-sexual intimacy alternatives. 👍

Msusice01 | Msusice01

Reasonable to not want intimacy, but communication is key 👍

WhatIsGoingOnHere_2 | WhatIsGoingOnHere_2

Prioritizing each other's needs can keep the spark alive ❤️

OntologicalParadox | OntologicalParadox

Respect for consent is crucial in a healthy relationship. NTA!

BroadElderberry | BroadElderberry

Husband can't take no for an answer? Trashcan or horny toddler 🤔

BlackMoonBird | BlackMoonBird

Husband is sexually assaulting her, friend is defending him 😡

dukef4n | dukef4n

Spouse's unresponsiveness screams 'STOP! SOMETHING IS WRONG!!!' NTA

cstarh408 | cstarh408

Struggling with intimacy? Consider therapy. Don't blame him entirely. 👨‍🍳❤

MsMezcal615 | MsMezcal615

Communication is key. NTA, husband needs to learn self-care 👍

Lump-of-baryons | Lump-of-baryons

Spouse's lack of respect and coercion is not consent. NTA.

datapizza | datapizza

Boundaries and burnout: empathetic reply offers support and advice. 👍

noreenathon | noreenathon

Lack of boundaries and consent issues, husband needs to learn control 😡

star_b_nettor | star_b_nettor

Consent is key, even in marriage. NTA ✌️

Due-Candidate9597 | Due-Candidate9597

Husband ignores wife's boundaries and leaves when told no – NTA

embopbopbopdoowop | embopbopbopdoowop

Partner needs to help with chores for both of your sakes. 👏

alm1688 | alm1688

Husband needs to step up to help, compromise on touch ❤

Brilliant-Republic-8 | Brilliant-Republic-8

NTA calls out husband's behavior and lack of care 👏

shit_ass_mcfucknuts | shit_ass_mcfucknuts

Communication is key! 🗣️ Have an honest conversation with him.

lakas76 | lakas76

New mom shares struggles with postpartum intimacy. 😩

Oojiho | Oojiho

Communication is key, have a sit-down with hubby 👥

Top-Afternoon6880 | Top-Afternoon6880

"Implied consent" can be withdrawn. NTA. Self-care is important. 🙌

StartTheDayBetter | StartTheDayBetter

Struggling with touch fatigue, husband's advances worsened situation 😞

Dependent-Pay-2446 | Dependent-Pay-2446

Sleepless nights and lack of help can kill intimacy. NTA.

Jamesonskunk | Jamesonskunk

Emotional manipulation and lack of consent, get him therapy ASAP 🚨

Fruit_Fine | Fruit_Fine

Exhausted moms share the struggle of unwanted sexual advances 😫

please_just_n0 | please_just_n0

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