My Reaction to My BFF Asking Me Out Caused a RIFT 😳🙊💥

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Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a juicy tale of friendship, love, and the dreaded 'yikes' moment. 😬 Our protagonist, let's call her Twinklefloof, finds herself in quite the pickle when her long-time friend, John, decides to shoot his shot... despite knowing she's happily taken! 💑 Will Twinklefloof's quick shutdown be applauded or will she face the wrath of her friend group? 🤔 Let's dive in and find out! 🏊‍♀️

🙋‍♀️ Girl's Got a Boyfriend, But... 😏

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🤨 Boyfriend Trusts Her to Handle It

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😬 Awkward Moment Alert! 🚨

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😳 He Shoots His Shot... 🏀💨

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😱 Her Reaction Though... 'Yikes'

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😠 Boyfriend's Reaction vs. 👭 Friends' Opinions

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😰 Stuck in the Same Friend Group

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🤔 AITA for the 'Yikes' Heard Round the World? 🌍

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😱 'Yikes' Moment Divides Friend Group! 👭👬

Well, well, well... looks like Twinklefloof's 'yikes' moment has caused quite the stir! 🌪️ Her boyfriend's glad she shut it down, but her friends think she was too harsh. 😕 Now, poor Twinklefloof is stuck in an awkward situation with John, who won't even accept her apology! 😢 Talk about a friendship faux pas! 🙊 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama... 🍿👀

Surprising reaction to BFF asking out while in relationship 😬

NuukFartjar | NuukFartjar

Don't cheat on your boyfriend and spare someone's feelings. NTA 👍

elemen-op | elemen-op

NTA. You made it clear you're in a relationship. Demand respect❗

usernaym44 | usernaym44

Ignoring signals and getting upset? NTA shuts it down 👍

MonAmiJaggy | MonAmiJaggy

Crush asks out friend in relationship, gets shut down. NTA.

Excluded_Apple | Excluded_Apple

Don't ask for a 'chance' to win attraction, be respectful. NTA 👏

StarryNari | StarryNari

Calling out disrespectful behavior and standing up for boundaries 💪

Alyswithawhy | Alyswithawhy

Friend broke friend code, NTA for rejecting, TA for asking.

WhenHope | WhenHope

NTA, BFF crossed a line asking out friend in a relationship 😳

verminiusrex | verminiusrex

Friend confesses feelings at friend's house, NTA for rejecting.

CountVanilla1 | CountVanilla1

Respect is a two-way street 👍. Friends don't force feelings.

redwolf1219 | redwolf1219

Be clear and reject him, but don't be afraid to be mean. 💔

8sGonnaBeeMay | 8sGonnaBeeMay

Engaging NTA comment with a fun YIKES poem 🤪

kissszonja | kissszonja

"Yikes" sums up the awkward situation with a friend's proposal.

my__name__is | my__name__is

🤨🙅‍♀️🚫👋 NTA for rejecting a guy while in a relationship

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NTA. Respect in friendship is key. Friends > selfishness 👍

sunnysummersday | sunnysummersday

Good call. Your friend's assumption was a major red flag 🚨

someLemonz | someLemonz

Friend disrespects relationship boundaries, commenters agree OP is NTA 🚫💔

sweet_mvgnolia | sweet_mvgnolia

Friendship not romance, he's being rude. NTA 👏

Stellanboll | Stellanboll

NTA. Friend's BFF asked her out despite her relationship status 😳

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"Yikes indeed": Friendzone boundaries clearly established 🙌

yybbyy | yybbyy

Politely rejecting a friend's romantic advances makes you NTA 👍

paytatoe | paytatoe

Standing up for boundaries against pushy friends 💪

An-Anthropologist | An-Anthropologist

NTA and friends put unfair social pressure on OP. John misread signals 🤷‍♀️

Medievalmoomin | Medievalmoomin

Friends prioritize his feelings, be careful around entitled John. 😳

SaintSilversin | SaintSilversin

Friendzoned BFF learns hard truth about unreasonable requests 😢

OutrageousTowel | OutrageousTowel

No such thing as a 'friend zone', basic decency > sex 👍

Malekith227 | Malekith227

Kind rejection with NTA, made boundaries clear 🙌

RagaMuffinSun | RagaMuffinSun

Sarcastic response to friend's confession of love 😳

ShioryIgnologia77777 | ShioryIgnologia77777

Standing up for yourself and your relationship. NTA 👏

mild_screaming | mild_screaming

NTA for shutting down unwanted advances from a friend 🚫👀

reaperr99 | reaperr99

Soft 'yikes' sparks debate on BFF's inappropriate advance. #NTA 😳

pluckyminna | pluckyminna

John is creepy and NTA for rejecting him. 🙊

JaneRenee | JaneRenee

Your BFF has crossed the line, NTA. Yikes indeed 🤨

privlaged-and-white | privlaged-and-white

NTA. Your friend was being a tool expecting too much 😜

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Standing up to a 'nice guy' friend who won't take no for an answer. #NTA 👏

friendlily | friendlily

Friend's unwanted advances are disrespectful and harassing. NTA.

JigglyMermaid | JigglyMermaid

Bluntly rejecting a friend - NTA, feelings aren't your responsibility. 🙊

gazhole | gazhole

Friend asks out person in relationship, gets called out. NTA 👍

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Setting boundaries and sticking to them! NTA wins this one 👏

HolisticHiatus | HolisticHiatus

Friend asks out BFF despite knowing they're taken, NTA for rejecting. 🙏

supportgolem | supportgolem

Friend in a relationship not interested in BFF, NTA 👍

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Misunderstood title - commenter agrees OP is NTA for rejecting friend.

Monkeey_nuts | Monkeey_nuts

Women shouldn't have to be nice to men who disrespect boundaries 👏

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Being accused of being rude because of someone else's inappropriate behavior 😒

MandaDian | MandaDian

Friendship vs. Love: When lines get blurred 🤷🏼‍♂️

Dustaroos | Dustaroos

NTA. Called out for inappropriate behavior. No need to apologize. 👍

mathhews95 | mathhews95

You don't owe someone who disrespects your relationship anything 💯

chaosindeep | chaosindeep

Being honest with your feelings is NTA 👍

manderifffic | manderifffic

Politely rejecting someone multiple times and they still try? Yikes 😬

MadameBurner | MadameBurner

Beware of male 'BFFs' who have a hidden agenda 🚩

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Friendship rift caused by guilt-tripping over rejecting advances. 🤷‍♀️

saumzzizlmynizzl | saumzzizlmynizzl

Setting boundaries with a friend can be tough 😭 but necessary.

Theresajanehall | Theresajanehall

Friend's story warns OP to reconsider relationships with boundary-crossing friend.

Rosenblattca | Rosenblattca

A refreshing post about trust in a relationship ❤️

Shadowfires024 | Shadowfires024

Friend asks out BFF, gets surprise reaction and weird request 🤷🏼‍♂️

Bharliescrocs | Bharliescrocs

Engaging comment asks for clarification on TV set-up logistics.

TallFutureLawyer | TallFutureLawyer

Friends taking sides like teenagers instead of adults 🤷🏻‍♂️

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Rejecting a friend's advances: NTA, shut it down firmly 👍

bocboc11 | bocboc11

Navigating the awkwardness of rejecting a friend with grace 🙏

I_May_Slay_Liz_Daw | I_May_Slay_Liz_Daw

Standing up against misogyny! You're definitely NTA 👏

sassyboiiii | sassyboiiii

Cut ties with 'nice guy' John and supportive friends. 🚫👨‍❤️‍👨

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Don't be a homewrecker. 'Yikes' is the right response. NTA.

casualmomo | casualmomo

Calling out inappropriate behavior, NTA receives support. 💪

eneyeseeohelee | eneyeseeohelee

BFF asks out during social distancing, NTA but TV lie?

naviebean | naviebean

Polite rejection didn't work, had to share poop story 🤦‍♀️💩

Tigerparrot | Tigerparrot

Polite rejection of friend's advance - NTA prevails 🙅‍♀️

ActualInteraction0 | ActualInteraction0

NTA, if he was an actual friend, he would take a hint 🙄

Socially-AntiSocial | Socially-AntiSocial

Setting boundaries is key, NTA for enforcing them 💪

KiKiPAWG | KiKiPAWG

Friendship and boundaries matter. NTA 👍

aquestionofsunshine | aquestionofsunshine

Nicely said! Clear communication is important in these situations 👍

redwhite-andnew | redwhite-andnew

Being asked out by a friend while in a committed relationship 😳

ateator3 | ateator3

Boyfriend+ BFF Asking Out = Awkwardness. NTA, clearly.

JDBoyes07 | JDBoyes07

Friendzone gone wrong 😳🙊💥

FishNStuff35 | FishNStuff35

Stand your ground! NTA. Time for new friends 👍

violetxjackall30 | violetxjackall30

"NTA" - Don't feel guilty for rejecting a friend's advances 👍

AngelOfDepth | AngelOfDepth

Respect matters. NTA for not being interested in your friend.

icebergmama | icebergmama

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